Talented Singer Vivian Wambui, popularly known as Vivian, and her fiancé Sam have opened up on the challenges facing their marriage.
Vivian has revealed that their marriage is in a hard place and that expectations have taken control over their relationship.
According to a post by the songbird , she said that social media couples have created an illusion of perfect marriage which she feels is quite misleading.
TODAY I WANT TO BE VERY CANDID.. NATAKA NIONGEE WAZI.. THE WORLD FIRST MET @SAMWESTKE WHEN HE DECIDED TO PROPOSE ON THE BIGGEST TV SHOW IN THE COUNTRY.
I WAS SHOCKED AND THIS WAS UNEXPECTED FOR ME.
I COULDN’T SAY YES OR NO SO I SAT THERE IN FRONT OF 40MILL KENYANS HOPING THE WORLD WOULD SWALLOW ME BUT IT DIDN’T, SO I SMILED.
FIRST FORWARD I HAVE WORKED WITH SAM WEST AND BEEN HIS WOMAN FOR 4 YEARS.
SO TO GET TO THE POINT THIS POST IS FOR YOU WHO UNDERSTANDS THAT WHAT SOCIETY HAS LABELED AS MARRIAGE IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS TO EXIST IN.
WE ARE TWO HUMANS WHO HAVE LEARNT THE HARD WAY. WE ARE FRIENDS AND WE WILL ALWAYS CARE ABOUT ONE ANOTHER. OUR UNION HAS HOWEVER TAKEN A KICK TO THE STOMACH.’
‘ IG IN-LAWS CAN ATTEST TO THE FACT THAT I HAVEN’T POSTED SAM ON MY FEED FOR THE PAST ONE MONTH OR SO.
WE FELT IT WOULD BE IMPORTANT TO SHARE THE TRUTH THAT MARRIAGE CAN GET DIFFICULT..
SOCIAL MEDIA COUPLES HAVE CREATED ILLUSIONS OF PERFECT MARRIAGES WHICH WE FEEL ARE QUITE MISLEADING.
TO BE HONEST WE HAVE IGNORED EACH OTHER’S NEEDS IN OUR UNION . EXPECTATIONS AND CONTROL TOOK OVER OUR RELATIONSHIP. WE ARE IN A TOUGH SPACE AND TO BE HONEST WE ARE HOPING WE WILL OVERCOME THE CURRENT CHALLENGE.
HII SIO KIKI. FOR THOSE WHO LOVE EVEN ONE OF US REMEMBER US IN YOUR PRAYERS. MAY GOD’S WILL BE DONE.
IN THE MEANTIME UKIPATA UNAYEMDHAMINI NEVER TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED., #NAJUA